About
Calgary's most exclusive
private lifestyle club
Obsidian Room is a members-only community for adults in Calgary who value discretion, connection, and curated experiences. Every member is verified. Every event is intentional. This is not a place you stumble into — it's a place you earn access to.
Process
How It Works
Apply
Submit your membership application. Tell us a bit about yourself. Referrals from existing members are welcome.
Get Verified
All members complete a secure identity verification. Your privacy is protected — this step keeps our community safe.
Join the Community
Once approved, you gain access to the member directory, exclusive events, and everything Obsidian Room has to offer.
Membership
Choose Your Access
Standard
Free Member
- Member profile & public photo album
- Browse the member directory
- Public event calendar
- Event tickets at standard price
- Receive likes from other members
- Read or send messages
- Member social feed
- Private album access
- Like member photos
- Discounted event tickets
- Attendee list visibility
Premium
Paid Member
- Member profile & public photo album
- Browse the member directory
- Direct messaging with all members
- Member social feed — post, like & comment
- Public & private photo/video albums
- Request & grant private album access
- Like member photos across the platform
- Discounted event tickets
- Attendee list visibility
- Priority lottery entry (single males)
- Referral code — share & earn free months
Events
Exclusive Experiences
Obsidian Room hosts carefully curated private events in Calgary. Details are shared exclusively with approved members.
Curated Guest Lists
Every event has controlled capacity and a carefully vetted attendee list.
Elevated Experience
Premium service, curated cocktails, and an atmosphere designed for sophisticated adults.
Members First
Paid members receive discounted tickets and priority access to every event.
Membership
Ready to Apply?
Membership is by application only. All applicants undergo identity verification. We maintain a respectful, discreet community — and we take that seriously.
Member ApplicationHave a referral code? You'll enter it during the application.